Originally Posted by NZkiwi


Does this sound like anyone else's WAW/WAS/MLC?



On one of my first posts as a LBS , one of the vets said something along the lines of "if we think we can define it, we can fix it"

We come here looking for that magic bullet - that quick fix..

There isn't one..

LH19 frequently uses the phrase "This is a marathon, not a sprint"..

These things often take years and years to play out..

WW / WAW / MLC - it does not matter - as you cannot change her actions or control her - no matter what you say or do. You can only control you, and your actions.. Hence the GAL / work on you / rock for the kids advice - as these are factors you have full control over..

For what its worth, even if there isnt a physical affair, i suspect some other person has trigged this.. Maybe an EA online.. Either way, there is often monkey branching involved.. So often the LBS comes on here, thinking there is no EA / PA - to be proved wrong months later.

Last edited by MrBrside; 10/08/20 08:38 AM.
Previous username - Helpme123.. A name chosen at a desperate time..

Now Mr Brightside.. coming out of my cage, and doing just fine.