Just poking my head back in here after a 3 month hiatus. Work and Life got busier than ever and time flew right by.
Fingers crossed, all D paperwork is done and there is just one final settlement document to sign and get the judge to stamp and we are officially done. I believe its going to feel like i can fly when its totally final. The amount of paperwork is ridiculous and i don't see the need for most of it, especially if there is no dispute. What a crazy system.
I have developed an amazing routine over the past year since i have moved into my own house. I miss the kids when they are not here, but they are here 1/2 the time and when they are we have an incredible time. The nights I dont have them, i get all the household stuff done and get my social time in, so when they are here its all about them. They are both doing very well and they have long since settled into this house and love the neighborhood, which is full of kids. It could not be working out better.
I wish i had the time to read more threads and comment, maybe that will be my New Years Resolution...? Those who devote their free time to help others here should be commended, it is not easy to find the time.
Pack, I dont think i am supposed to link you to other outside sources, otherwise i would hit you with a list of names to youtube. if i am wrong about this, someone let me know please. There is no perfect self-help guru out there, but there are many people in different disciplines who you can take what works for you and leave the rest. i have spent 2 years going through a progressive journey of youtube videos to find people that make sense to me. Pack you can start as I did, just enter the topic you seek in youtube search and start watching. you will begin to find people that resonate with you.
Wishing everyone well, stay safe. Don't forget that you are in charge of your life, your happiness and your emotions. It's all up to you.
