Ditto to Ginger’s post.

I don’t think you need to find an IC that specializes in divorce. You need one that can help you build a toolkit to respond to stress. It’s less important what is causing the stress.

An IC isn’t going to change your situation. It’s going to help you change, and that might change your situation.


Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16