Quickly I just want to chime in that it sounds like he feels ganged up on in MC. Everyone knows that it was wrong and an affair and it sounds like you are looking for vindication. Do you want to be right or married?
I get the feeling that you and May are at the "reconciliation at all costs" stage and it must be done quickly to alleviate my fears.
It doesn't work that way. The WW has to see the LBS as a person of value that they are willing to work for to remain in their lives.
