Yes, I heard this to. I heard that if she is not WW then you could be softer in your techniques. And I never chased her. She contacted me. I mean, you have to start from somewhere. I agree that if you present yourself as strong and confident and show her the changes your going to grow reattraction. Also, in my particular case (with all the trust and dishonesty issues) I have to show her that she can feel safe with me (both physically and emotionally) Again, lots of confusion on my end and differing opinions on the board. Wouldn’t mind some advice from some of the vets on the board if they have time
