We do share a cuddle and open mouth kissing daily usually initiated by me and we have had sex several times since she came back (shes been back around a month and a half).
This does feels different from the last time she came back where she was still working with the AP. Also just to clarify she was leaving the job as I told her I could not have her working with the AP anymore and so she requested a move to another location but the workplace couldn't accomedate this so she quit.
When I said I support her greiving for the AP I am not talking about her crying in my arms for him, she told me how she felt and I told her that it was to be expected regardless of how it ended and I understood that she had to go through a process.
I think looking at it from my point of view I have been too full on with her and have love bombed her which is why she may have pulled back somewhat. Its likley too much too soon and because I am affectionate by nature I am expecting her to be the same which of course is leading the doubts when she is not and she has explicitly told me today that its too much too soon so I am going pull back somewhat and stop trying so hard.
Nothing seemed forced when she came back and she would say ILY a few times including locking eyes with me and tell me during sex.
