Normally we advise to stay in the marital home as well as the master bedroom. The other person has to do the work. If I recall correctly, the house is not in your name, it is in hers. Correct me if I am wrong. Sorry but sitch do get blurry in my mind. I would seek legal advise about this before making any decisions.
R2C, the home belong to my W and her brother. It was originally her mother's and we sold our home and took this one over when her mother passed away 6 years ago. It was a sound financial decision at the time. So I do not have any rights to it.
I do agree with you. I will not share and as far as the M is concerned it is all or nothing. I am contemplating leaving the MBR tonight. We have always slept wrapped up in each other's arms or some body part touching throughout the night. She hasn't touched me in two weeks. She'll turn towards me in the middle of the night and instead of putting her arm around me, as usual, she will now tuck it under my pillow, as if trying to keep herself from touching me. It is killing me. I literally slept on the edge of the bed last night just to keep myself as far away from her as possible. I need to figure out how to get a good night sleep again.
My only option is the futon in my office (spare bedroom), that is incredibly lumpy and uncomfortable, but I can't stand lying in bed next to her all night and not being touched.
