Thanks Steve85. Right, I get that. I guess the confusion is I have read other threads that indicated that "if something isn't working, then try something else". For instance, reaching out as a friend to go for a coffee or maybe do a workout together (we used to do that all the time). Or is that considered pursuit? I heard one of the DB coaches recommend this to another poster. I'm a little confused about this technique. Also, she just invited me to go trick or treating on Halloween with the kids so that will be nice to connect.
