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Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this? Mar252 #2905074 10/05/20 05:26 PM
Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 9,350 Likes: 310 Colorado R Ready2Change Member
Ready2Change Member R Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 9,350 Likes: 310 Colorado	Originally Posted by Mar252 I have a decision to make, begin living separate lives in the same home or just get my affairs in order and leave. ...To all the LBS, if you had the option to stay or go when you first had your BD's what would you have done? I am open to all advice and opinions. Two sides of a coin. Both sides have worked for some. I lean toward this side: "I do not share my lady with other men." "I do not want to be with a woman who does not want to be with me" "Is it better to leave and have her miss you, or stay and resent you?" The other side may have positive results if there is not a third person in the picture and/or the resentment and blame and unhappiness has not crossed some threshold. Easier to show your changes in behavior. Normally we advise to stay in the marital home as well as the master bedroom. The other person has to do the work. If I recall correctly, the house is not in your name, it is in hers. Correct me if I am wrong. Sorry but sitch do get blurry in my mind. I would seek legal advise about this before making any decisions. "What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712

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How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	09/27/20 05:10 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	job	09/27/20 06:13 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	09/27/20 09:50 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Valeska19	09/28/20 01:55 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	09/28/20 03:22 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Valeska19	09/28/20 11:37 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	09/29/20 12:36 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	ovrrnbw	09/28/20 02:33 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	09/28/20 03:33 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	09/28/20 03:45 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	09/28/20 10:01 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	09/28/20 10:04 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Cadet	09/28/20 10:07 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	09/29/20 12:11 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Core	09/29/20 02:12 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	09/29/20 07:49 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Cadet	09/29/20 01:18 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Core	09/29/20 01:40 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	09/29/20 03:21 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	BL42	09/29/20 04:21 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	09/29/20 04:56 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Core	09/29/20 09:36 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	09/29/20 10:13 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Yail	09/29/20 11:22 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	BL42	09/30/20 01:07 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	09/30/20 05:40 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	may22	09/30/20 11:06 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Ready2Change	10/01/20 08:15 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Sage4	10/02/20 06:18 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	10/04/20 02:21 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Core	10/04/20 03:56 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	10/04/20 04:14 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	PLC	10/04/20 05:28 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Core	10/04/20 05:35 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Valeska19	10/04/20 07:04 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	10/05/20 04:10 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Ready2Change	10/05/20 05:26 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	10/05/20 09:54 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	10/04/20 06:30 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Yail	10/04/20 10:04 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	10/05/20 04:24 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	may22	10/06/20 12:19 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	10/06/20 11:03 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	may22	10/06/20 08:42 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	10/07/20 03:58 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	10/07/20 04:09 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	10/07/20 08:13 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Yail	10/08/20 12:48 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Sage4	10/08/20 04:01 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	10/08/20 04:09 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Valeska19	10/09/20 02:00 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	10/09/20 02:22 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Valeska19	10/10/20 04:43 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	may22	10/08/20 08:15 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	10/08/20 10:17 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	may22	10/09/20 01:56 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	10/09/20 01:39 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	KristinG	10/09/20 08:14 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Yail	10/09/20 09:56 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Core	10/09/20 10:10 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	10/12/20 08:42 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Valeska19	10/13/20 12:00 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Sage4	10/13/20 05:58 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Yail	10/12/20 09:31 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Traveler	10/13/20 12:51 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	10/14/20 04:02 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	10/15/20 02:25 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Yail	10/16/20 01:09 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	10/16/20 03:14 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Yail	10/16/20 10:15 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	10/18/20 11:22 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Valeska19	10/20/20 01:35 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	10/21/20 01:17 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Ready2Change	10/21/20 06:31 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	may22	10/19/20 01:05 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Steve_	10/21/20 03:06 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	10/23/20 02:21 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	KristinG	10/28/20 04:38 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	10/28/20 11:41 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	01/03/21 12:47 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Sage4	01/03/21 01:29 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	01/03/21 02:13 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	01/06/21 05:29 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	may22	01/07/21 11:48 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	01/06/21 05:49 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Traveler	01/06/21 09:01 PM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	01/08/21 03:32 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	01/08/21 03:48 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	may22	01/08/21 07:44 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	01/09/21 12:05 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	97Hope	01/10/21 01:48 AM
Re: How am I going to do this? Should I do this?	Mar252	01/10/21 02:50 AM

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