I have been incorporating DB techniques throughout the last couple of weeks, However, I broke one of the rules yesterday, as I asked if she wanted to go for a walk with the dogs. She agreed, and it was nice to see her but she seemed cold when I dropped off the kids last evening.
What I found in my sitch was that as the LBS these kinds of things always backfired. Even if she said yes, I got a small percentage of my old dynamic with her. Usually it left me feeling unfulfilled and worse off than if I had just taken the dogs for a walk by myself.
Your wife is a cat right now. If you reach out for her she will run the other way. But if you sit quietly and keep to yourself, she may jump on on and want some attention. So stop reaching for her.
Last edited by Steve85; 10/05/2001:58 PM.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
