Originally Posted by TimW10
One other question I have. If my wife asks why I have not been contacting her or why I have been distant, how do I respond to this? One of the complaints she had was I was not engaged enough, that I had "checked out", and that rarely showed her affection. How do I show her these traits if I am supposed to be giving her space, time, and not pursuing?

"You wanted to split and I'm respecting your decision."

You can't really go "show her" and peacock your new and improved self. You probably haven't even cemented your new and improved self yet truly. So give it time and space and let her come to you by being attractive and GAL.


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.