I can tell you this much for sure. When I do my DBing, backing away, being pleasant you know, all the hard stuff that rips your soul up it works. When I get needy and say something like, "im sorry" or "I don't want a D" she backs off. I know its impossible to do but I would suggest STOP APOLOGIZING, PLEASE DONT TALK ABOUT THE R!! I just did and It was not a good idea. I don't think I blew anything up but yeah it was a backslide. You gotta do your best to act like you are cool and *if* she asks I would say something like *I don't want a D, but if that's what you want okay* and leave it there. Please try to avoid R talks, they don't help man trust me, just had one and it made things awkward. Probably put her back on the defense again too. not good.
T:11 M:10 K: D5, S7 BD: 9/1/20 WW continues to break up and recon with OM. I paid last fees and pushed the D 5/3/2021 Default Dissolution granted 8/5/21. Glad my D was not busted.
