You're so right, my fear is a possible future event. It has not happened.
A different future event is he stays in the home and he wants to work towards a reconciliation. I always go to the worst case scenario.
Also, "Out of the ordinary behavior" BINGO. I have grown so used to him behaving in a certain way over the last almost year and a half, that it is normal now. Out of the ordinary puts me on high alert. But IF he did say he was moving out, I also know that there is nothing I can do to change that, either.
When I calmly think of these things, I usually circle back to the fact that I am so much further ahead, some of my worst fears have happened, I am still here and I am learning to GAL on my own.
