Update: We spoke yesterday regarding going to the bank to seperate our finances.
During the conversation W asked why we were going to the bank...my response was “that is what you wanted”? She seemed like she couldn’t remember she had said or wanted this.
Then w said “what do we need to do there?” Really strange behaviour. My reply was, “ to organise our finances and set up an account for our S.
Does this behaviour sound like a WAW or someone in MLC or just a fact that she has forgotten everything that involves me?
I then continued to be the stronger one and continue the conversation towards getting a legal separation agreement (done here in NZ before divorce) and also selling our home.
She seemed undeterred by what I said.
I was kinda hoping to call her bluff but it really does seem like this is the end of our M.
The confusion could be ordinary WAS stuff - they often deny having said something, like their memory is Swiss cheese and full of holes. But since she’s been out partying, could drug use be another possibility?
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The confusion could be ordinary WAS stuff - they often deny having said something, like their memory is Swiss cheese and full of holes. But since she’s been out partying, could drug use be another possibility?
Confusion is the best word for how things are at the moment.
No drug use, I would normally say I’m very certain of that. (If you’d asked me the same question of our marriage earlier this year I would have said the same thing)
To make things even more difficult for myself during this time especially. My W and I work for the same company and get regular drug tests.
The fact that she has increased her texts/messages mean anything? They are not personal messages but vary about our S and house (while I am not there)
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