Join some sports leagues or bike clubs or duck clubs. Lots of guys at those places.
Also, in my sitch, I would go out alone and make new friends (guys and girls). Chicks liked that I'd dock my boat solo and I'd smile and have a good time and they'd walk up to me. Just dress well and have a subtle smile like you're the happiest guy in the world. They'll come to you. Enjoy the game and take the pressure off yourself.
Too bad you're in New Yawk otherwise I'd be glad to share a beer.
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