Got a cancelled meeting so will do a short update. Thanks to everyone for your replies!
First meeting with L went fine. The drafted contract is ready and I handed a print out copy to W yesterday. I am a bit nervous because they decided to show W exactly what she will be loosing in the agreement. ITs not a huge sum but will likely make it harder for her to agree. W brought up an addition she would like to add which is basically, IF I sell the hosue within 2-3 years and make a huge profit she gets half of the profit. I agreed to something along those lines a while back but had sort fo forgot about it. I intend to live there for at elas te few years but I am reluctant to basically make it binding, legally. I will agree but try to limit it to 2 years.
After the meeting we continued to talk about smaller assets and I noticed she was silent. AGAIN she was close to crying and said its really rough on her, I validated and we talked some more. AMong other things she said: "I have never felt as good/happy as when we lived in the house together." "Its really rough to not have a direction in life." Waywardness sure isnt logic...
She said I have become deeper/wider as a person. In a good way. I jokingly said I ahve also become wider physically. She laughed and agreed.
This process is so strange as we will be living together for a few more months/weeks. She is finally looking at apartments!
Last edited by Mumin; 10/01/2007:30 AM.
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021