Trigger: I think I am so used to him being in LA LA land that when he does anything out of it and still does not speak to me except little grunts (like a teen) I assume, he’s out of MLC, back to former self, but is still loyal to the OW. I think I can rationalize her being there, when he is obviously acting like a teen.
Irrational tie- hmm, I am always a good one for jumping to the worst case scenario, and so I think just being my anxious self is irrational.
If I rationally really think this out, again, it doesn’t matter what he is doing, so I need to continue to work on me. Him deciding to have clean sheets or a clean room is good, but I guess it also can show that I am not going to ask him to clean up. If this was a battle of the wills on if I would break and do anything, I won, haha.
