I know I need to focus on me, and for the most part I have been doing that. It is easy in the sense that H, although the lives here, ignores me for the most part.
H has always been a clean freak. With the MLC he focused on fantasy land and although he has put extreme effort in his looks, he had left laundry for months to do. He only washed what he needed to wear. A couple of weeks ago I mentioned he cleaned out the bedroom he’s living in and today decided to wash the bedding.
Why does this give me anxiety? Is he near the surface and sees the mess? Does he think to clean up to clear out?
Every time he’s done this nothing has happened, so can anyone explain?
I literally can maneuver all day with just me and when I see this progress on clean up I throws me. Help.
