There are programs to help family and spouses of alcoholics check online if interested This is in addition to this program which has much more info on MLC It has more information on dealing with a problem drinker/spouse
Many MLCer will drink so it is up to us to see if the situation is a safe ones for our kids and if we need additional help in dealing with the added issue of alcoholism and MLC
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