WAW w/Exit Affair or WW? - Don't Want Divorce (2)

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ovrrnbw - Thanks for weighing in. I'll try. Just seemed like a crazy week.

All - Other comments/advice? Thought these three happenings from last week might generate more feedback (or maybe these are relatively vanilla?):

• W unilaterally changes agreed upon schedule at last minute, leading to text exchange disagreements
• Completely civil conversation with W's grandma (who used to love and think very highly of me and my family) at D2 exchange the next day somehow turns into to a voicemail from her 48 hours later with a threat to call the police
• Unsolicited information leads to a strong indication there's an OM2 now in the picture (affair with OM1 done?), likely hanging out with children