As you are a new member joining the site, I will caution you that this site does not allow references to other sites and/or links to other sites. I have also put in hard returns in your first posting to make it easier for the readers to read your posting.
Your h sounds like he's still in replay. Try to remember that the stages and timelines are a guideline and each MLCer will experience their crisis differently due to their personalities, childhoods and traumas. Some will have the same traits as others and some will be completely off the chart.
When dealing w/someone that is in crisis, it is a marathon, not a sprint.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
