Reconciliation Rollercoaster (part 5)

[Pommy99]

Will reply more later, but H has broken contact with OW. He called her and told her why he was ending contact. We had agreed that we would sort it out tomorrow, with a text, but he felt a text was too heartless given her recent diagnosis. I would have liked to have been part of it, to hear what he said but he wanted to do it “his way” and he didn’t tell me beforehand because he thought I would want to do it “my way” even though we hadn’t discussed what “my way” entailed.

So we’ve had a big fight about him doing it behind my back, but at the end of the day I respect him for doing it his way. OW also basically gave him a big F.O. as she doesn’t understand why he needs to block her.

There was a lot more to what’s happened today, H and I aren’t speaking. I think he probably feels that he’s done it so wtf is the problem whereas I got upset because it wasn’t how we agreed.

In short, train wreck !