Finding calm during the storm

[peacetoday]

Hi

Tough when they are living home , but never there

I like what DNJ said about groceries and app and thinking about if you were single, d, or widowed, what would you do?

I would be kind and cordial, like if he wanted an apple and I paid for it
or I baked something...I would share....but treat him as he has asked..
and buy for you
If you know he likes a muffin and you want to have it there..
I think that is kind- but not overdoing anything

They will follow their plan and truthfully there is little to zero many of us can do about the outcome

We do our best- no regrets later-

Most important to take care of you and keep all doors open -see where he lands

I had to separate our joint accounts and get my name off the credit cards
MY XH was spending a lot- and I'm grateful I took action
I Saved myself a lot more pain by doing so-