Is that how you see yourself? Would you feel stronger if you stopped the "loving wife mode"? Would you feel selfish?
Originally Posted by Pommy99
How and when do I start to enforce my boundary? Do I start now (not going to MC, not working on the marriage). How much time do I give him to take action?
You enforce the boundary when you truly believe it is the safest thing for you. At this point - it feels like you might still be creating this boundary for him.
If you know your H buries his head in the sand - you certainly can't stop him. But are you enabling his behavior?
It sounds so very exhausting. I'm sorry Pommy. Have you thought anymore about how Pommy can take care of Pommy?
M(f): 43 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
