Dnj, when he returned last year after being away from work, he never said anything to me about where and when he would return. It showed up a little then faded out and now, it seems to be a bit more.
If he comes home and I am visible I will say hi or look at him to see if he says hi. (He does). If he comes home and I am not home yet or if he comes home and I am busy, I do not make an effort to say hello. If the door is closed I leave him alone.
I mentioned before, I can cook. Well, with the weather being so hot of late, I have been making simple salads and light items. He doesn't eat anything. He is back to eating alone. I am not letting it effect me anymore, but I just think it is dumb.
The one thing that stands out is before when he was in a room and I would make a little chit chat convo, he would respond monotone one word answers. Now he responds with further questions or like above, follows up like he has been thinking about it later when he sees me.
Yet OW is around, and he has not said one word about our relationship. Maybe he just thinks he has told me he wants a D, and he thinks he's got no reason to not be cordial as he has let his intentions be known. I know, this is where I GAL and work on me.
