Thank you. This is frustrating and as my daughter would say, “ SO annoying”.
I have really been treating him as a roommate, I am standing. When I GAL, I will see a little reaction, I know it’s working, it’s just not an overt reaction. Obviously, this is not a quick fix, but I can’t GAL all day everyday when I have a job and responsibilities.
I think about how my life would be with a divorce, how the house would be and even today I was thinking, when I come home for lunch sometimes he’s there. Would I come home and not wonder if he’s going to be there or would I even wonder what he was doing. It’s weird.
I miss the good times as we all do, I appreciate he’s not a screaming jerk, but it makes it even harder BECAUSE he is nice enough.
