Oh PLC. It is so, so frustrating. WTF is wrong with him?
I'm sorry, I know I'm not living this exemplar but when I read your last post all I could think of was this fantasy of walking away from it all. Just ditching all his crap and not worrying about his plan or whatever. Just getting rid of him and his BS in your life and moving on, clean and fresh and unpolluted by all the BS he has brought down on your life. No more parsing of the random kindness or gas filling or cleaning up. Just.... you. and whatever you want and need.
xoxo M thinking of you.
Me (46) H (42) M:14 T:18, D9 & D11 4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs 9/20 - present: R and piecing