I'll write more later but just wanted you to know that I *also* walked too heavily. For real. I don't know why, but it really makes me laugh about these crazy men. It is like they imagined these light-footed Disney princesses who swept around and magically took care of all their needs and were constantly interested in hearing more, more, more about the amazing and brilliant things our Hs were up to. And of course were always DTF. Then somehow they hear us walking around the house and that heavy tread is what bursts the whole bubble. It is so interesting to me that this makes the top ten list of why we aren't good partners.
xx M
Me (46) H (42) M:14 T:18, D9 & D11 4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs 9/20 - present: R and piecing