Here to learn more

[peacetoday]

Hi

My version of standing is something like this

When I got to this site and for the first 2 years, I had no where to go

Standing gave me time...like 2 years time..to see if H would turn back

to see if I had a chance to save my M
to practice new skills with H
To be there for him

I was cordial and kind
detached when I could

I took this time to to heal me
To review the M and all the mistakes

to raise my school age children

to make sure I had enough financial means to raise them and still be an available mom

To get to therapy weekly or biweekly to grieve and deal with all the pain D brings

to deal with the D and the L and the negotiations

to GAL, make some new friends, read, exercise, grieve and change
as I look back it was a great time of growth for me

so standing can mean many things
We can stand for our M...for a time..or for longer
This site will support you in your individual choice
Everyone gets to choose for themselves