As far as parent alienation. I have text messages between my daughter and ex, where the ex is calling me a loser, don’t talk to him, don’t worry you don’t have to spend a lot of time with him, be careful what you say to dad he will try and take you away from your mom. Telling her to hide things from me like her phone, terrible how I don’t spend every second with them when I am cooking. And it goes on from there. I would think that is pretty bad.
Sounds harsh - but if i were in your sitch, my focus would be on proving her wrong.. By actions, not words.
One thing that stuff with me was a close friend explaining how dad let him and his siblings down..
Mum cheated and left dad... His dad became the rock, while Mum lived the WW life with OM. They rarely saw mum as she went full speed ahead on her WW journey..
2 years later dad met GF.. ( now married ) - she didnt like the kids, and they got pushed aside.. At the same time, mum was waking up from her crazy ways.. My friend has very little to do with his dad now.. He went from being an amazing dad when they needed him most, to somebodyy they see a few times a year - over 1 woman..
Made me realise that nobody is worth losing my kids ( or grankids for ) - The dads decision to put the woman first saw his relationship with 4 children crumble, 1 daughter self harm, and now only seeing his grandkids a few times a year..
Food for thought !
I'm not saying dont date - but be the support for the kids first.
Previous username - Helpme123.. A name chosen at a desperate time..
Now Mr Brightside.. coming out of my cage, and doing just fine.
