I have to say I read your post and my first thought was the same. Maybe with a deadline I can focus better on doing a good job at DB.
I keep thinking a big reason for me doing this is my kids, but if I truly cared for the M and optimizing the chances of success, I would make better use of the DB techniques and your advice in the board. Instead of recommitting to my M, I might better commit to DBing properly for some time, what do I have to lose?
Thanks for the support as always!
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Me 29 W:29 M: 5yrs T:10yrs S:6 yrs S:1 yr BD: "I want a D" 08/09/19 Sep: 10/27/19