LH ---- Very logical!

Indy ---- Very emotion based!

So you can't be logical with your WAS because its emotion based.

I've also determined you can't be very logical with LBS because they are very emotion based. smile

Indy, if only it was that easy right??? I certainly do tip my hat to you. While you did end up having a 4hr convo with her overall you've been very good about ignoring the majority of her texts. You've done better than I have by far. While I don't get the ILY or IMU I get plenty of texts looking for this or that, etc. and I seem to always have a need to respond because it seems "business". I wish I had cut him off soooner but I still wonder if I would cave again if he asked or needed something... I need to get more firm in my boundaries.

Hang in there Indy.

For what its worth I don't think you need to walk away if you don't want to but certainly temper your expectations for long term success. Your best bet as LH has pointed out is walking the opposite direction from her. You can do this!