I promised her I would stick by her side and I really meant it. I get the advice on here but I love her and IMO shes worth it. She's worth the wait and the rough times.
Look Indy I get it. A Young McDreamy in the 80s movie "Can't Buy Me Love" is going to trump the guy on the internet every time. Who doesn't love a good Hollywood ending after all. If I can just prove to her how much I love her she will finally see the light. (puke) lol. I wish it worked that way. If it did you would see the nice guys with all the supermodels.
Seriously though if you want to see good DBing watch "Sweet Home Alabama". He bettered himself by starting that new business and SEVEN years later his W finally saw the light.
So on the vows note I am just curious as to what her vows were? Any out clauses or possible things open to interpretation?