LH, From what I can tell you're a good guy. I'm really sorry to hear that about your daughter. Honestly I'm sorry that you've been through this too. It [censored]. A lot. I dont know when that point is I just know its not yet. I'm just not ready to give up on her or throw in the towel. My wife has done some things that have hurt, but I believe shes a good person. Shes shown me that for so many years. Good people make mistakes. I know how you feel on the vows LH, but they mean quite a bit to me. I promised her I would stick by her side and I really meant it. I get the advice on here but I love her and IMO shes worth it. She's worth the wait and the rough times.
Over,
Thank you, No I haven't pursued her at all. Her family knows and they are not happy. Our families have known each other for years and are really close. They dont understand any of this. I haven't talked to them about the sitch but they tell me they are praying for me and her to come back together and cant believe this is happening. I know I need to go slow and I'm keeping my expectations at bay. As in none. Im gonna stay positive and continue to give her space. I appreciate the support over.
