Trying to keep hope

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Indy go slow on all this.

I think your W can love and do a horrible thing to you at the same time. I loved my wife but I did treat her horribly. She never stopped loving me but she treated me badly.

I don't know enough of your background to know everything about your sitch. Does her family know what she is doing?

I don't see you pursuing her either, did I miss something? Her calling you is not you pursuing. It is a good sign, so is the ILY. Don't read into them too much though. What Steve posted is good and so is your quote from Michele.

Give her space like you've been doing and turn the focus back to you and what you were doing.