Kindly,

There are a lot of twists and turns in dealing with a MLCer
Them taking off and not being available is one
overspending another

I always kept an eye on the bills and the credit cards, until I took my name off the card, when I saw he was overspending

My XH racked up a lot of debt for himself..

My name was off everything, so I was not liable

Just be watchful over the money and bills
and you will know when you need to include L

Truthfully, this area needs to be carefully watched


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow