Sending love, so much love, your way. I totally get it (and kind of feel it would be smart for me to do the same). But please know that our sitches aren't yours.
You have shared so much with me and helped me so much through all of this. The nice thing about these boards is that we can go back and read things again and please know I'll be relying on the support you've already given me as I move forward.
I have every confidence in you. AND because I can't help a tiny bit of solutioning, can you let him do one tiny thing for you? Just a test? Let him make dinner and clean up after, or something? I keep remembering him buying all that (bacon or something? in bulk?) and calling you to ask how to freeze it. He never left you, WF. You're his person. Let him show you. Something small that is nbd. And see how that makes you feel. And if it is okay, after some time, let him do something else.
Thank you so much, WF, for all you've given me. I'm a better and stronger person because of you.
xx M
Me (46) H (42) M:14 T:18, D9 & D11 4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs 9/20 - present: R and piecing
