I was going to suggest to stop MC and any relationship talks etc. until the OW issue was addressed. Things will not and cannot get better until she is out of the picture and he has grieved their relationship. Go back to focusing on yourself and really think about how you want to live the second half of your life. If he wants a relationship in the future you will know. If he does not you will still feel like your in limbo and confused.
He has a 1-2-1 with MC tomorrow. I'm hoping something will come out of that in relation to how he deals with OW (or not). Then I can make a call on whether we continue with MC and how I want to move forward. This has to be a boundary for me. I cannot stay in the M if he wants to remain in contact with OW.
M:49 H:49 T:20 M:18 D:16 D:14
EA: Feb 2019-May 2020 Separated: Mar-early Aug 2020 H asked to reconcile: Jun 2020 EA relapse: Oct/Nov 2020 Recon #2: since Nov 2020
