I did see W Sunday to exchange the kids. I was going to leave when she stopped me to complain about some money she has to pay and she requested me to pay my part. I said that is in the agreement we have and our Ls should discuss it but then she insulted me, she threatened with D (what a surprise!) and she told em we would go in front of a judge if necessary. All of this in front of S6 and S2, who was crying because he wanted to stay with me and W would not let me hold him. I told her multiple times to stop insulting me, specially in front of our children, but she kept going until she said one of her magic sentences "you have many issues and you have not changed". I am SICK of these interactions, look if she wants a D let her have a D, I am a an of worth and I should not be insulted in front of S6 who adores me. I am since then working on implementing NC properly (only kids EMERGENCIES), implementing GAL and letting this suffering, this fire, run through my body while doing NOTHING.
This is when you walk away Pack. No one says you have to sit there and take. You asked her to stop. She didn't. So you walk away. It's not about doing nothing. It's about changing the dance. Change your part.
Originally Posted by Pack_19
Not sure what defines me anymore, I really need to find myself again. Enough with the D threats, she will also be losing the best she has ever had and if cannot see that is her problem.
I'm gonna assume this is just your anger speaking here... but becareful to not act on it or deeply believe it. No One is the best someone ever had. That's just hurt talking.
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
