It's tough when their are hints of reconciliation from our spouses but they aren't truly ready yet. I had that with my exw. After an initial seperation we got back together for a year and a half. We attended some MC but she never did the homework. She didn't want me to have access to her phone because she said it was an invasion of her privacy. I can remember walking in the room one day while she was texting and it was so obvious she was hiding something. Everyday I would come home and the first thing I would do was look to see if her phone was on the charger. Pretty $hitty way to live. 6 years ago Saturday I caught her secretly texting my neighbor. Knowing what I know now anything short of her apologizing, giving me full transparency and complete remorse I would have divorced her right then.
