LH, I do love her unconditionally though. I dont mean I'll be her friend while shes having an affair or be a doormat. But, I do mean I'm willing to give her space and wait for her while this plays out and see where things end up, while not giving up on her. I still love her, just from a distance right now.
I'm sorry Indy but you are being a doormat. You are just too new at this to realize it. Once you get through this and get to the other side you you will never allow someone to treat you this way again. Even if she were to comeback tomorrow she would walk again down the road because she doesn't see you as a person of value. I know that stings but it is the truth. This stuff is hard for sure and solid DBing is not easy. I leave you with one of my favorite quotes that I want you to read until you really understand it. "You can ignore reality but you can't ignore the consequences of ignoring reality".
