I got sucked in with her bringing up recon, wedding ring, ILY’s.
I slipped up and I let myself get pulled in.
I see your point but a lot of what she said on the call was far from the friend zone. I won’t be a friend or even be around if she’s with OM and that’s the boundary I previously set.
However messed up, I broke my own boundary and I didn’t push on that because she seemed really upset. From a lot of what she said it made me believe that she’s not with OM but again I backed off and didn’t get a clear answer that I should have.
I’ve gone back to NC until I get a firm answer on that.