Valeska, You're right. I found a way around my own boundary. I think I told myself If she was wearing her ring, saying ILY, asking about recon then OM must be out of the picture. However this was never confirmed. There was never a commitment to recon and no discussion surrounding the things that have happened.
Part of me didn't push because I genuinely felt for her in the moment. She sounded so upset and I didn't want to force it on her in that moment. I really do love this woman and despite everything I don't want to see her hurt. I just care about her alot but I guess the hard discussion are the ones that need to be had.
