Indy.... you know the answer to this question. You know what you should have done. The question is Why didn't you?
Why did you set a boundary and then go back on it? Perhaps you cannot establish boundaries with your W because you cannot set the boundary on yourself. NC is hard. It exposes our weaknesses, brings our fears to the forefront.
Originally Posted by Indy470
When the call headed in the direction of discussing that and other things, she broke down and said she knows we need to talk about things but asked if we could just enjoy this time talking to each other. I didnt push.
Again Why? Why didn't you push? Why did you agree?
Be honest with yourself Indy.
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
