Unfortunately it sounds like this was 4 hours of cake eating. Just enjoy this time talking together...
You put it pretty well yourself a few posts back. "I keep reminding myself for things to get better, it has to be over with OM. Not that things need to get better in order for it to be over with OM."
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021