and LH, her number isn’t blocked because he chose not to, even though I had suggested it might be necessary to protect himself and me/the M from this very kind of situation.

M:49 H:49
T:20 M:18
D:16 D:14

EA: Feb 2019-May 2020
Separated: Mar-early Aug 2020
H asked to reconcile: Jun 2020
EA relapse: Oct/Nov 2020
Recon #2: since Nov 2020