stick with your plan.. Do your best to be kind and fair--then let go
The M is now over and the D is business only
Thx peacetoday - I always tell myself to stay calm and stick with the plan. Sometimes the plan is clear, other times really muddy! It’s always so upsetting and discouraging to me when I read about the damage an Mclr can do...especially financially.
Nice to hear from you too Cardinal and I’m still following along. Yes it absolutely is wonderful to be able to come here and get advice or a compassionate ear.
Update ~ H has been gone since Friday...very unusual and I have no idea where. The main concern this brings up is house bills all being in his name. Has anyone had any experience with being in the house still and bills not getting paid? This hasn’t happened yet but I’m just thinking ahead. If it happens, I’m pretty sure my only course of action will be to involve my L.
Other than that I’m just doing my best to navigate the feelings of seemingly being discarded and ignored so harshly. This past week has not been my best...but I’ll turn it around again. The emotions always seem to flare up with changes in the situation which means I’m still paying it too much mind.
