I think the money was spent on women and gambling. But mostly his racing hobby.
I was aware of some money going to racing, but as of last year when he was out of the country he did not and has not raced this specific car.
Regardless, I think he is mirroring what his dad did, he worked and that money went to the family. He got a second profitable job and that went to him and his hobbies. Needless to say H’s parents are now divorced.
I know it bothered H that his dad did that, but here he is doing the same. He did not have enough taxes taken out so we owe.
It’s just a mess, our marriage, our finances, everything.
You said you wouldn’t get a second when he is threatening divorce, and there we are. Is he going to follow through? Is he going to come back to the marriage? I have to go on that I am standing but this may not be the outcome I want.
I think I will sit with this information a bit. Next week, I will let him know we do not qualify because of his credit. Let’s see if he has a plan B. I would suggest he sell some racing equipment but we all know a mlcer won’t want that. Or maybe he will, I can suggest selling so we can pay off taxes and his bills then He can move out. Boy, that would probably confuse him.
