Welcome SJ. Nice to have someone new join us in this forum. I have been on lots of internet dates and have found the vast majority to have been pretty fun. Most of the guys were appeared to be who they said they were. Definitely preferred it to sitting at home but I am not an introvert. Never really considered myself an extrovert either but maybe compared to some people I am. Anyway... I have found being here after divorce just as helpful as I did before divorce. I hope you do too. (((HUGS)))