i have always found kml's advice to be very well thought out and helpful. just saying. we're talking about coffee, or lunch, or dinner, not the rest of your life. none of these choices are irreversible, so why not just dip your toe in? xoxoxo keep posting.

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver